Kawan

Salam semua.

Tetiba di pagi yang sejuk ahad ini terasa nak berblogging la. Agak lama tidak menulis. Meluahkan apa yang aku suka.Apa yang aku fikir.Dulu orang berblogging aku pun sibuk nak berblog. Sekarang orang tak berblog dah sebab dah ada twitter, instagram yang lebih friendly use. Senang kot, asal rasa menyampah kat orang jer boleh post kat twitter, asal rasa nak berselfie boleh post kat instagram. Peluang banyak, so pilih je yang mana kita suka. Terpulang. Nak semua pun boleh . :-)

Kawan. Aku rasa aku kehilangan banyak kawan. Dari zaman sekolah, matrikulasi, universiti, tempat kerja. Cuba kita belek friend list kita dalam facebook, instagram, twitter kita. Daripada beratus beribu kawan kita tu, Berapa ramai kawan yang betul-betul ada time kita susah? Berapa ramai kawan yang betul-betul keep in touch dengan kita? Berapa ramai kawan yang betul-betul rapat, bertepuk tampar, boleh bergurau kasar, yang kita leh ngam la? Aku rasa boleh dibilang dengan jari.

Ada kawan yang kita kenal dari kecil, bermain bersama-sama, tapi bila dah besar ke laut semuanya. Yela masing-masing dah ada family kan. Agak susah nak berhubung dengan kawan dari kelompok ini. Mungkin segan sebab dah besar kan lain. Dulu kecil berhingus, sekarang dah besar tu dia...cun habis, macho habis. Dulu kecil comel jer, bertocang, kemas jer, badan pun melidi, tapi dah besar macam tong. Hehe..tapi stilll cute ape.

Tapi bila dah besar ni, kita mesti rapat dengan teman sekerja kita. Kita boleh lepak-lepak, tengok wayang sama-sama, pergi berkelah, makan-makan. Sebab kita menghabiskan sebahagian hari kita dengan diaorang. Isnin-Jumaat, eight to five. Perangai pun dah boleh baca. Gurau pun giler kasar. Kalau sentap memang campak pulau la. Tapi ada jugak yang terbawa-bawa style keje dalam hubungan persahabatan. Ada yang kena marah dengan member sendiri, tapi bila luar kerja, boleh kamcing sangat. Aku suka macam ni sebab dia tahu beza kerja dengan lifestyle. Tak simpan dalam hati punya. Kalau dapat yang berdendam, alamatnya cari kerja lain atau sampai boleh putus kawan . Pendapat aku, kita semua dah besar, dah boleh fikir. So pandai-pandai la bezakan. Sama macam seorang ibu/bapa memberi nasihat pada anaknya dan seorang kakak/abang menegur adiknya. 

Hidup ini best kalau kita plan jadi best. Tak payah serabut-serabut cari masalah dan cipta masalah lepas tu tak reti-reti nak settlekan. Wat lek, wat peace sudeyyy. Chillla !!!!!! 

The day when I was born

Assalamualaikum.

Thanks to Allah, for giving me another chance to live and be with my loved ones again. Alhamdulillah.

I would like to express gratitude feeling to my family and friends for all the birthday wishes yesterday. I really do appreciate the hopes and doa' that all of you made to me.

I can't guarantee but with Allah wills, I may assured that I will be better person and be more enthusiasm to going through this life challenges.

I am thankful to Allah for sending me the greatest parents, siblings and friends whom always together with me through bad and good times. 

I know that my family won't treat me either at fancy restaurant, live at 5 stars hotel or bring me to oversea for holiday. I know they can not afford and raised in the moderate family made me understand and grateful with all the ordinary things I have. For me, it just enough to have them around and that made me the most happiest birthday girl in the world. Love you all... always!!!

Alhamdulillah.

HAPPY HOLIDAY

Assalamualaikum..

HAPPY LABOUR DAY!!

It's been almost 4 years after graduation I was employed and Alhamdulillah I've been thru bad and good experience as employee and that's make me more stronger as I am today.

I was started working at my practical place and doing not much related to the course I studied teach me not to be demanding. As fresh graduate on that time it was important for me to grab any opportunities and gain as much as experience as I can. Honestly, what you are studied at university just a theory part and the real life begin once you enter the job market. 

Sometimes in our career, we might make a wrong decision  but at least you have tried and dare to push forwards for getting better life. PROUD TO YOURSELF. Never quit on your dreams, and with Allah help and a strong heart we able to overcome all the challenges.

 

Don't worry about what you have now, cause one find day, life will rewards you for every pain and sorrow you've been thru.

To those working people regardless of rank, occupation, we are all the same, dream chaser. Don't stop dreaming, be brave, fight for what you believe in and make your dreams your reality.

~XOXO~

p/s : in election mood..can't wait this Sunday.. JOM MENGUNDI.. :-)

JODOH DENGAN KEMATIAN

Assalamualaikum..

Selamat Pagi!! Selamat berhujung minggu.

Pagi tadi, terbaca one of the artikel kat harianislam.com regarding "JODOH DENGAN KEMATIAN".

Artikel yang menarik untuk dikongsi di sini..i just copy and paste here..but this article make me think of something..erm..anyway lets read together.

JODOH DENGAN KEMATIAN

Biarlah kehidupan kita, jodoh kita, kematian kita ditentukan ALLAH. Kerana itu sebaik-baiknya.

Tiga perkara yang tak dapat kita lari dari kehidupan ini ialah PERKAHWINAN, KESAKITAN, KEMATIAN.

Mari baca perkongsian seorang anak dan umi mengenai Jodoh, semoga anda dapat mengambil iktibar dari artikel Jodoh Dengan Kematian.

Semalam, dalam kereta umi seperti mengingatkan anak perempuannya tentang jodoh. Dimana saya bercerita dengannya, “Umi, ada seorang kakak ni lawaaaa sangat. Tapi tak kawin lagi. Umurnya dah 30 tahun. Alim, baik, dah macam macam usaha dia cuba umi, tapi masih satu pun macam tak datang melamar.Dia sangat gagah tau umi.” Umi hanya mampu tersenyum. Ayah juga.

Saya hairan. Kenapa?

Lalu umi kata,“Mungkin jodohnya dengan kematian.”

Terkedu. “Maksud umi? Dia dah nak meninggal?”

“Bukan la kakngah. Maksud umi, mungkin jodohnya yang ditetapkan oleh Allah tu sudah bertemu dengan kematian. Atau mungkin belum, tetapi hampir kepada kematian. Allah “simpan” dia. Mungkin kalau dia kawen, dan husbandnya meninggal, dia menjadi seorang perempuan yang lupa pada Allah? Sebab angah kata dia alim kan? Mungkin dia terlampau sayang dan tak boleh terima?

Allah boleh je kawin kan diorang, tapi kan Allah kata, Allah kasi ujian kepada hambaNya yang mampu sahaja. Mungkin dalam soal ini, Allah tahu dia tak mampu nak tanggung. Jadi, Allah kasi dia ujian lain, dengan tak kahwin Sekarang ni, umi nak tanya angah. Angah sanggup hilang orang yang angah sayang, ataaaau angah sanggup tak kawin, dan tak hilang sesiapa pun yang angah sayang?”

Saya diam. Tak jawab. Sudah tentu saya pilih tak kawin, dimana saya tak hilang sesiapa.

Oh, jadi sekarang saya faham, kenapa makcik umrah tu tak kawin, dan Allah tarik rasa nak kawin dekat dia. Ya, baru saya faham..

Saya baru faham juga kata-katanya tentang, “mungkin jodoh makcik dengan kematian” Waktu tu saya fikir, memang makcik ni nak tunggu kematian. Rupanya, maksud dia lain. Oh, ya. Baru saya faham sekarang ni.

Lalu umi sambung, “jadi jangan berharap sangat untuk bertemu jodoh. Bukan umi cakap, jangan tak fikir langsung fasal jodoh, tapi jangan terlampau “gila” kan tentang penemuan jodoh. Serahkan pada tanganNya. Menjadilah yang solehah. InsyaAllah, kalau ada jodoh dan rezeki itu, datang jugalah ia kepada kamu.

Remaja zaman asyik fikir tentang jodoh, kahwin seronok. Tak pula diorang nak fikir, mati awal tu macam mana? Hish. Takut umi. Kalau anak-anak umi meninggal awal, entah apa yang hendak diorang persembahkan kepada Allah. Jodoh dengan kematian itu sayang, sama tarafnya. 

Tapi dalam memikir soal jodoh, kematian itu juga harus selari. Kerana jika hanya fikir tentang soal jodoh, kemana pula persiapan akhir kamu kelak? Jodoh takde takpe, amal takde macam mana pula? Ingat tu. Jodoh tu, orang kata “bonus” kepada setiap hambaNya untuk tambah pahala lebih lebih bagi wanita Tapi amalan? Ia sendiri sendiri, sayang”

Saya diam. Betullah.

Kita ni, asyik nak jodoh jodoh, kawin kawin. Kalau dalam Luh Mahfuz tu, pasanagan saya tu ajalnya awal, maka saya punya jodoh tiada. Sebenarnya ada, cuma Allah tarik awal. Maka, takkan sepanjang hayat saya nak tunggu jodoh turun dari langit? Sedangkan “dia” yang Allah hantarkan tu sudah bertemu awal dengan PenciptaNya?

Muhasabah.

Fikir jodoh itu, haruslah selari dengan fikir akan kematian kita. Baru baru ini, kawan rumate saya meninggal, saya diam sendiri. Muda. Tak kawin. Amal? Bagaimana? Allahu~

Baiklah, mari. Kita persiapkan diri, persiapkan amal. Untuk bertemu Allah, dan bertemu jodoh. Perispkan diri untuk menjadi yang lebih baik, tambah yang lebih hebat. Topup mana mana yang lompong. 

InsyaAllah dalam persiapan hendak menemu Dia, sekaligus dalam menjadi baik, Allah hantarkan pula seseorang untuk berada di sisi. InsyaAllah! Tapi jika takdir bahawasanya jodoh itu tiada, maka dimohon supaya redha itu mendahului, insyaAllah. ♥

KELUARGA KITA

Assalamualaikum and hi friends...

When you have to choose between your special one and family, who will be your priority?

Honestly I think family is the most important thing in life. It is more important than money, than jobs, entertainment, or anything else. It will bring the most fulfillment to your life.

Therefore I don't understand why some people with no doubt choose their special one whose clearly is a stranger.

Marriage is not about the love between a couple but it is the lifetime responsibility towards the whole life.Which means it is not about you and me but also the whole family...father, mother, siblings and relatives.

Please be preparing to learn respect and treat people the same feeling as you are in their shoes.

Men, one day you will get married and have kid, if one day her boyfriend do the wrong things to your daughter how do you feel? It's same as you now, what you are today will reflect you in future. Please think about it. Once you do the bad things today, people will keep talking forever.

Love your family first before love anybody else. You are nobody without the love and spirit from them.

Always remember never take for granted your family, those you rely on even though sometimes you probably said, you can stand alone... those you need the most even though sometimes you think your special one will always on your side.. because one day you may turn around and your family will be gone..

No family is perfect..We argue, We fight... We even stop talking to each other at times, but in the end..FAMILY IS FAMILY.. The love will always be there.

A gentle reminder for me, my sister, my brother and all of us, hope we will not hesitate to choose between family and the special one if we are in between to make a choice.

Till then, enjoy your weekends!! <3>

Baru Nak Mula

It is been almost a month I've started new job. Alhamdulillah everything goes well.
Only the environment quite bored as it seem so serious and looks tensed.
Or maybe it me the only one feel like that.

Yes, as new staff that's the most hated feeling because i need to take time to make myself comfortable with the surroundings.
New friend and new place also new nature of work.

After all its only me the one facing all the problem and manage it to survive.

No life without challenge and either i like it or not, i still need to face it. It is okay to me cause that's the normal feeling at a new place.

Warm up month.. Definitely!!

Till then..up to here..


Happy holiday and spread the love.. ...<3 p="">

YEAR 2013

Hello...Assalamualaikum..

It is been a while after so long i have not write up anything here.

Things goes very well to me lately and i would like to share it here unfortunately I have no idea how to figure it out. Bad me!!

Alhamdulillah, new year 2013 will bring the tremendous progress in my career.I'm so thankful and blessed for that.

It is so true that sometimes Allah wants to give us today more than what we have before. As long as we believe in path and Allah always knows the best. So just wait and patient. It will rewards you one day and when the day come , you will surely say " Glad Allah choosing me for all painful and hardness to reach my ultimate dreams"

Never stop to put your 100% trust to Allah and keep on praying.


Enjoy year 2013!!!