Saturday, January 29, 2011

Understanding people who stop you dreaming


This entry comes across in my mind, after thinking it for so long. Sometimes, I do not understand why people like to hurt others feeling and insist that they were joking but it actually hurting. I believe each of us has meet this type of people in our life. Why these people simply have to say such things?

When they tried to provoke you with the things they said, what should we do to handle it? Yes, those things sometimes can make us mad and do we have an option to avoid this pain? Is it ignoring them would be the best way? yet it more hurting because we keep in our heart and pretend that we are okay but actually we are not.

At the end, we try to change not because of our self, but more because we want them accept us into their life. Why should we hate ourself? Why should we change? Why do we have to feel miserable for what they did and said? And why bother??

You can only be hurt if you allow it to hurt. We can never control people’s mouth. They have right to said anything they like even though that word hurting other feeling and make people feel depressing.

When should they change? Hope, they can take minutes to thinks, what they said/did was wrong and so annoying…Remember that these people not V.I.P in our life and not deserve our attention. Lets the wind brings them into their world and learns from their words.
Quote of the day:

IT IS BETTER TO BE HATED FOR WHAT YOU ARE THAN TO BE LOVED FOR WHAT YOU ARE NOT!!